Cheese for You! Cheese for Me! Cheese For Everybody!

Welcome back random people! What is on my mind this week? Cheese. Gooey, sweet and bad for your cheese.


Um. Let me make myself clear.

By cheese, I mean cheesy television.  The type of television that consists of laugh tracks and cutesy children. Bright, cheerful sets and problems that are solved in 30 minutes or less. I’m talking about television we don’t see anymore.

I came to this conclusion as I watched the sequel to Full House, Fuller House. I was cringing at all the catchphrases I adored in my youth being thrown at me with abandon. I rolled my eyes at the new children with their cute smiles and new slogans. I see former child stars coming back for the paycheck. I let all that wash over me and came to a realization.

Why am I cringing? Why is this bad? Yes, it is cheesy. It is so hopeful and family friendly it will make you want to barf out rainbows.

I’m ok with that. I am giving the ok to be ok with cheesy television again. As I watch this show that just had three group hugs in one episode, I’m happy. For once I am ending an episode of a show feeling happy.

Current television is dark. I looked closely at my top five favorite shows, and they are all very dark. Lots of blood. Lots of deception. People aren’t easy to care about. Everyone is a mess, and that is fine. Life isn’t easy. However, why can’t we interrupt that darkness with some casual and light family fare? I know life sucks. Why can’t I disappear into television for 30 minutes and be happy?

Why did we decide that wasn’t something we wanted anymore? The news itself is dark. Fictional television doesn’t have to follow suit.

So, I watch Fuller House un-ironically. I fully embrace the cheese factor. I fully embrace forgetting my problems for 30 minutes. Bring on the laugh tracks, bad catchphrases, and cute kiddies and puppies.

I am ready. Are you?

Until next time, the randomness has ended. I hope you enjoyed.


In Defense of Sex and the City


Welcome back to Valentine’s Day Month. As I wrote yesterday, I wanted to focus on Sex and the City. Lately, I have seen many people suddenly turn on this show. They have every right to their opinion, but the things they hate are what made the show so great. They hate on the friendships, the relationships and the characters themselves.

I felt I needed to defend these elements of the show because I feel like they are what made the show so good and reachable after all these years.

So, in defense of Sex and the City: I present my case!

1) The Friendships

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What I love most about Sex and the City is the friendship shared between the four main characters. Even better, even when they argue, they still find their way back to each other. I noticed a lot of hate concerning their relationships. One of the main complaints? No four women would ever be friends like that. Yes, I read that on a few Tumblr posts and IMDB.

It makes perfect sense that these four would be friends. Why? They balance themselves out. They even had an episode about how they balance themselves out. When Sexual Samantha and Prim and Proper Charlotte have a huge argument and don’t want to be friends anymore. They go and find friends that are just like their personalities. Let’s just say they come back together in the end because they needed each other.

The reason they are friends is because they balance and support each other. They call each other out on their bull. Sounds like friendship to me. I don’t understand why people would want them to be constantly fighting. We have enough women bringing other women down. I enjoyed seeing women support each other for once.

2) The Relationships

I have read reviews of this show calling the characters sluts. First of all, I hate that word. I do not think a woman who has a lot of relationships is a slut. She is just trying to figure out what she wants. She isn’t going to settle for anyone.  That could go for the characters on this show. They have so many relationships (in a collectors book I got they list every single guy they dated on the show. It is a lot).  Is that a bad thing?

Nope. Not even close. When this show was on the air, women on television were still using coded language to talk about guys and relationships. Many women didn’t have multiple relationships. They talked about what they wanted, but shows made them settle. Sex and the City had the nerve to say that love does not come that easily. Sometimes people don’t want to settle. They will not until they find someone that fits.

All the characters ultimately do settle down but it is with people who they didn’t think would work. Which shows that sometimes what you want isn’t what you need. Completely relatable.

3) The Real Characters


These characters are real. They have individual strengths and weaknesses that don’t magically go away because the episode is over. The show had the nerve to make the lead character be a cheater. Carrie cheats on Aidan, who is a complete sweetheart of a human being. Most shows would not let their main character do that. Most writers and showrunners would be afraid of marring the image of their lead. The character that is meant to be the voice of the show. That is not real life, though. Good people do terrible things all the time.

That is what I love about this show. Miranda is cold and can treat people like crap. Samantha has a prejudice against people who settle down and have children. Charlotte is about being proper and following societies rules even when it doesn’t benefit her needs. There are times when you want to punch all of these characters in the face. Then there are moments you want to hug them or make them feel better. The characters are well rounded. Since they are well rounded, they don’t fit the typical comedy show tropes.

I love that, and it makes me appreciate the characters more. Damaged but they keep moving and growing while they figure out what they want. What else do you want in a character?

There are a lot of reasons to hate Sex and the City. I understand a lot of the complaints. However, to complain that you don’t like that a character did a bad thing or that a character is a slut on this show annoys me to no end. I feel like Sex and the City has a lot to offer in terms of being a woman, dating, men and your female friendships.


Until next time, the randomness has ended. I hope you enjoyed!